Are you a complainer?Most of us will answer”yes”. Really,none can escape troubles and everything isn’t always going smoothly. So complaint becomes a theme(or subject ) of our life.
There are many many causes for complaint.However,in my opinion,the essential and potential cause is our mentality of compensation,which simply means,the balance of psychology. For example, if somebody curses you,you’ll curse him back. It’s a normal phenomenon,but it’s unwise action. Because you’ll get nothing but lose something when you are complaining.If you are always complaining about something, your complaint won’t change anything,but you’ll probably lose another chance;If you are always complaining somebody,which means you like punishing yourself for others’ errors.What else you will get?While, you’ll make yourself very exhaust,and you’ll possibly lose the trust and even the friendship of the person who you complain.
So, don’t complain any more! Then, how to restrict your complaint? The key point is to fill your life with appreciation and love.
Appreciate your parents!For they give you the life and the non-conditional love.
Appreciate your teachers!For they give you the knowledge and wisdom.
Appreciate your friends!For they give you the friendship and help when you get in trouble.
Don’t complain any more.Everything(bad and good)has its reasonable way to exist. If you can’t change the reality, you must change the habits of your life. Just live with appreciation!

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